Passion 101

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I’m happy to announce that the replay of the March “Ask Adam” Relationship Teleseminar is now available!  It was the best teleseminar yet and I addressed the following: 1. How do you KNOW when you’ve met your soulmate? 2. It’s been three months since our first child was born, my husband is ready for sex, but [...]

Can A Cougar Relationship Work? The concept of a “cougar” relationship, where an older woman dates a younger man, has become more popular in the news these days.  And many people are asking, is it healthy, is there long-term potential? It’s always hard to generalize, so let me share with you my thoughts about it. [...]

What Is YOUR Love Language? I’ve been working with couples for twenty years and a big part of my work is to serve as a “translator” for the couple.  It often seems that they don’t speak each other’s language. The issue seems to be much more than the simple “men are from Mars, women are [...]

Would You Want To Be Married To You? I know that this might appear to be a strange question, yet I’m serious about it!  Would you want to be married to you? In this world, so many people are self-centered and want to know what’s in it for them.  Their relationships, whether personal or business, [...]

Do YOU Treat Your Relationship Like A Business? And when I ask the question, I don’t mean it in a cold or impersonal or emotionless way.  What I mean is, are you truly as INVESTED in your relationship as you are in your career or in your business? Do you take your relationship with your [...]

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I’m happy to announce that the replay of the February “Ask Adam” Relationship Teleseminar is now available!  It was the best teleseminar yet and addressed some deep issues. I answered the following questions: 1. What is “Just Because” Day? 2. How do you develop intimacy without intercourse? 3. How do I keep a man committed [...]

Now Why Would I Possibly Recommend That You Be A Selfish Lover? BECAUSE the latest research seems to indicate that a selfish lover is more a more satisfying lover to their partner!  Yes, it’s true, a study from Kwantlen Polytechnic University in Vancouver indicates that: “… as a partner’s sexual self-focus decreased, their partner’s satisfaction [...]

Do You Celebrate “Just Because” Day? I’m writing this as a backlash to the commercialism of Valentine’s Day.  It’s not that I have anything against expressing your love and sharing a romantic day (or night) with your beloved.  It’s more about needing someone to tell you WHEN to do it and HOW to do it [...]

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Ladies, want a better relationship even if your man doesn’t want to “work” on it? We had a very successful Preview Call last week of my new program for women with partners who aren’t very motivated to work on the relationship or enter couples counseling.  It’s a 4 week teleseries called “Don’t Talk So Much [...]

Ready To Reignite Your Relationship? It’s almost Valentine’s Day and while I’m not a big Hallmark kind of guy, I DO know that many of the couples that I counsel come to see me because they want to reignite their relationship and have more romance and passion in their lives.  And after 20 years of [...]