Passion 101

Don’t talk so much! I know that this sounds insensitive and politically incorrect.  I know that psychologists and couples counselors such as myself are supposed to push “communication” as the key to a better relationship.  AND, I’m here to tell you the truth or at least MY TRUTH. This post is specifically for women in [...]

All-day foreplay is an incredible way to build up passion in your relationship.  And by all-day foreplay, I mean more than just kissing, petting and oral sex.  This post is about the largest sex organ of all: your mind!  Everything can be considered foreplay is you use it properly. I’ve written about the mechanics of [...]

My first “Passion Assignment” post was about Appreciation. This post is about High Energy Fun which is a really important concept in helping couples stay connected in a loving, fun way. Many of the couples that find their way into my office have become stuck in old, rigid patterns of interaction. Some patterns are cruel [...]

This is a new idea I’m really excited to begin, which is to provide my blog readers with periodic “Passion Assignments” which can help you to create a more passionate, romantic, sensual and intimate relationship (not necessarily in that order!).  My first assignment is one that I give to all couples that I provide counseling for, [...]