Passion 101

Pumpkin Pie Can Help Your Sex Life! As “The Passion Doctor”, I’m always on the lookout for ways to create more passion in your relationship.  And around the Holidays, we often overindulge in food, which can leave us more like beached whales then sex machines. So you’ll love this passion tip, especially between Thanksgiving and [...]

Are More Dominant and Attractive Men Better In Bed? This has been a fascinating question that has been open for debate for a long, long time.  It’s probably only second to the “does size really matter” question.  From a biological perspective, it certainly would seem that the more “dominant” males will be better breeding stock [...]

81.7% Of Married Men Surveyed Are Frustrated, Dissatisfied And Want To Improve Their Sex Life As the “Passion Doctor”, I’ve been writing the Passion 101 Blog for over three years to help committed couples in long-term relationships keep that spark of romance and passion alive.  A big part of my work with couples is to [...]

Do You Practice The Seven Kinds Of Sex? One of the main reasons couples choose to work with me in counseling of telephone/Skype coaching is that they are having issues “in the bedroom.”  Not enough sex and/or not the “right” kind of sex are big issues that I work with every week in my private [...]

Do Women Want To Be Ravished? As a psychologist and couples counselor, I’ve been asked this question by men, women and couples for the last twenty years. My specialty is helping couples bring back the passion in their relationship and using fantasy is one way of doing this. And the fantasy of being ravished, being [...]

Now Why Would I Possibly Recommend That You Be A Selfish Lover? BECAUSE the latest research seems to indicate that a selfish lover is more a more satisfying lover to their partner!  Yes, it’s true, a study from Kwantlen Polytechnic University in Vancouver indicates that: “… as a partner’s sexual self-focus decreased, their partner’s satisfaction [...]

Ready To Reignite Your Relationship? It’s almost Valentine’s Day and while I’m not a big Hallmark kind of guy, I DO know that many of the couples that I counsel come to see me because they want to reignite their relationship and have more romance and passion in their lives.  And after 20 years of [...]

Does Kissing Have An Expiration Date? I seem to be writing on the theme of “kissing” lately, so I’m asking this question, “Does kissing have an expiration date?” as it seems quite important as a barometer of intimacy and connection in a relationship. If you haven’t already read my previous post, “It’s All In The [...]

Can more sex help neurotic couples be happier? The latest research does seem to indicate that more frequent sex helps neurotic couples in their relationships!  The Social Psychological and Personality Science Journal published an article in October, 2010 entitled “Frequent Sex Protects Intimates From the Negative Implications of Their Neuroticism”.  You can read the full study [...]

Are you able to share your fantasies with your partner? My work is about helping couples who are committed and really love each other to recover their passion. There are many reasons why a couple’s passion fades, and of course each couple is different. There is no cookie cutter solution that fits everyone. One of [...]