Passion 101

All-day foreplay is an incredible way to build up passion in your relationship.  And by all-day foreplay, I mean more than just kissing, petting and oral sex.  This post is about the largest sex organ of all: your mind!  Everything can be considered foreplay is you use it properly. I’ve written about the mechanics of [...]

Since sex is such a serious topic for many of the couples I counsel, I decided to create a short video on the types of sex to help you all to lighten up!  My work with couples and singles with intimacy issues is deadly serious and unfortunately, it creates a deadness in their relationships.  Laughter is [...]

In working with couples over the last twenty years, it seems like the ingredients we  wish to include in our recipe for a long-term relationship are: Chemistry, Compatibility and Commitment. Each of us expresses these ingredients to varying degrees and we give them different importance and priority.  However, to be truly happy over the long [...]

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I’m pleased to announce that the replay of my July “Ask Adam” Teleseminar is now available! It was a great teleseminar with wonderful questions. I answered concerns people had about: 1. How can a couple that has had an affair, currently has very little in common and where the husband needs pornography to get aroused, [...]

According to statistics, more than 40 million Americans are in sexless marriages! This doesn’t include all of the non-married relationships or the rest of the world. More than half the couples I counsel each week have not had sex with their partner in over a year. A large number of these couples are over forty [...]

Consumer Reports did a sex survey of 1000 adults and over 80% of the respondents said that they sometimes avoided having sex with their partners.  Yes, we all have legitimate reasons from time to time for avoiding this physical intimacy, yet when we get into the HABIT of avoiding sex on a regular basis, it [...]

Do you want to create more intimacy in your life?  It’s certainly one of the issues that many of my couples and singles want to work on when they see me for private counseling sessions.  The first thing I like to do is to define our terms.  When some people talk about having more intimacy, [...]

In pursuit of Passion, it is critical to be well educated. Here is a chart which tells us “15 Things You Should Know About Breasts.” Click here to see the full chart of “15 Things You Should Know About Breasts.”

Dr. Sheck, It’s been two months since our first child was born.  The doctor said that after 6 weeks we can have sex again, but I don’t really feel like it.  My husband is definitely ready though.  What should I do? Tired & Torn Dear T & T This is not uncommon and the short [...]

If you’re looking for reasons to get back into shape, to lose weight and to improve your health, then consider the impact of your weight on your sex life! Research from Duke University indicates that up to 30% of obese people seeking help controlling their weight indicate problems with sex drive, sexual desire, sexual performance, or [...]